The Lord hates dishonest scales, but accurate weights are his delight. Proverbs 11:1

I have had dishonest scales. I put more weight on my side of this marriage than I do on Jim's side. I feel I do more, I am more, I deserve more, I need more. The weight is always on my side the way I have seen it until now.
Somebody owes me.
Jim owes me, and he better pay up.
This is a lie. I confess it before my God.

When pride comes, disgrace follows, but with humilty comes wisdom. Proverbs 11:2
Disgrace = no grace

God, please forgive me placing my weights inaccurately. Balance me.
Balance us, so that I can truth.

Forgive my pride, cleanse me from my tendancy to sin and replace my dishonesty and pride with humility and grace toward Jim.